Why Emotional and Sexual Healing?

Decades ago when I was more young and good looking, I was living a somewhat glamorous life as an intuitive reader but my relationships were not lasting. I was being loving to the women in my life, but to be honest, I was also subconsciously using them for sexual gratification without giving my real commitment to the relationship.  I didn’t know better at the time, as this is what many young men and women do when they are emotionally behind. 

What does that mean to be emotionally behind?

In a nutshell it means one lacks loving intimacy with their self, and so lacks an ability to be truly intimate with others.  

In order of the lowest to highest vibration, we all have a physical body, emotional body, mental body and spiritual (etheric) body. The three lower bodies must be completely purified into alignment with the perfect spiritual body upon enlightenment.  It is the emotional body that tends to drag behind the most delaying a person’s spiritual progress. When the emotional body is healthy, we feel loved and truly happy.  

Let’s look at what happens to a typical person’s spiritual, mental, emotional and physical bodies throughout their lifetime.

When a baby enters our world, it is full of enthusiasm for life because the loving spiritual body is unfiltered by the mind. Overtime, the child learns good and bad and right and wrong, and more and more the baby’s joyous spirit is filtered out by fear-based beliefs. Beliefs are a collection of like thoughts over time. Whatever we believe eventually becomes a feeling. Strong beliefs precipitate strong feelings, and this sets the stage for conflict with others who believe differently. 

A person can be an intellectual wizard, and yet be an emotional baby. When the person has learned many fear based beliefs, what follows or negative feelings. And, when these negative emotions are not healed, they precipitate into the physical body has tension and disease.

Without emotional healing, sadly many people die young.  Negative trapped emotions create energy disturbances in the physical body’s energy field, eventually breaking it down. The emotional pain a person is subconsciously caring, if not healed, eventually wrecks havoc on their body’s organs. Without emotional healing, people have their defective organs cut out and replaced with artificial parts, and this can only go on for so long until they lose their will to live and leave their body all together. 

Just yesterday I was working with a woman who has cancer in her left breast.  With the Freedom-code Quantum Energy Healing, we cleared her pattern of over-giving to get love from the outer world, and not being able to receive love, especially her own love. In our next session, I look forward to guiding her with how to love her inner child free of feeling wounded. 

Not only to restore our health and lengthen our lives, we want emotional healing because we desire to feel like we did when we were young children, full of enthusiasm and passion for life.

Emotional and sexual healing is particularly important for women because they are designed to feel their feelings and sensuality more deeply than men. For example, the man’s way is to produce and to provide for the feminine, and the feminine way is to create and give birth. But in our current society many if not most women have developed a masculine core. They gave up their feminine side to compete with the men, make money, and this has been empowering in ways – including winning their independence from controlling and abusive men. But these masculine women usually aren’t happy, and often their bodies aren’t healthy. To be a true woman is to be intimately connected with one’s feelings, sensual body, sexuality, emotional rhythms of Yin and Yang,  and be in one’ s creative flow, connected to nature, the earth, the beauty of all life including children.  Many women gave this up to live a corporate life or become so obsessed with a mission to give to others that they forgot how to receive, including receiving support from men. 

The feminine energy is about receptivity, and being filled up by the Spirit of life. 

Instead of going out to do and get, the feminine way is to relax, be, and allow one’s needs desires to be fulfilled. Being in gratitude for what one is receiving now, makes one attractive for more. This is easier said than done, when we have been programmed to be a rat in the rat race for many years. 

It seems to me, there’s too many women out of touch with their ability to attract and have a juicy life as they overwork for money. This causes their sexual energy to dry up. Menopause happens too soon because while living a linear life full of schedules, the woman is out of touch with her feelings, her being-ness,  her sensuality, cycles, and natural flow. 

How do we heal or emotional body? We learn how to love our inner child, another name for our emotional body. My favorite form of inner child work that we educate at I AM U is called Inner Bonding, created by Margaret Paul. 

The emotional body and inner child is situated at the first three chakras and mostly at the second sacral chakra,  where a woman’s sexual organs are. 

When a person has been ignoring their own happiness, their inner child has been neglected, and if this has gone on for a long time, the inner child becomes frozen. 

Some religions teach one to detach from their feelings and desires,  and this only makes the inner child feel even more neglected and unsafe in the world, and this disconnects the person from their own Soul’s creative passion for life..  A chronically neglected or abused inner child (usually from the one’s own self criticism) will become frozen or numb of feeling and the person will lack energy, drive, and their body will become cold. This is the ripe environment for disease to come in. 

But this downward spiral can be reversed when one practices the reunification of the wounded child with the loving adult via Inner Bonding. For an Inner Bonding session contact me or one of our students.  Once you have had a few sessions, you will have learned to do it on yourself any time. Inner bonding is taking 100 percent responsibility for your happiness. It’s much more than therapy; it’s an enlightened way of life. 

When your inner child feels loved, you rediscover the happiness you once had when you were a child.  As scripture says “We must become like children to enter the kingdom of God.” 

I can not be reminded of the following words enough… 

Success is not the key to happiness; Happiness is the key to success!

The emotional body and the sexual bodies are different aspects of the same body. Both aspects need to be active and flowing versus dormant and stale. The Sacral chakra is the seat of our sexual desire and creativity. 

Some religions, especially those of the East,  teach the ideal state is to be desire-less, but all too often the religious leaders become caught in sexual scandals, and let’s not forget all the adult followers who seduce the leader and give their bodies away. When we deny our desires, they come in to haunt us from the “back door” as inappropriate compulsive or addictive behaviors. I believe desire is not a curse from God, but a gift to be treasured. When we bring loving consciousness to our desires, our sexual energy becomes a super energizing positive flow of pleasure and creativity. 

Today, the Goddess is rising. After thousands of years of giving away her power to the masculine, the strength of the Goddess is returning in every woman and man. This is kundalini rising, more sexual creative energy than many people know what to do with. But if we make it wrong and suppress or neglect it, it can easily go out of balance. 

I feel deeply fortunate to be able to share with you a most effective method for the constructive balancing and revitalization of one’s sexual and creative energy. This very ancient method given to humanity from the goddess Isis is called Aliyah. Aaliyah is a simple life changing practice that marries the masculine and feminine within the individual to end inner and conflict between the opposite polarities and thus enhance cooperation and harmony with one’s relationships. 

Aliyah has changed the lives of hundreds of thousands of people.  Contact I AM U to be informed about the next Marriage of the Opposites Workshop where you can learn and practice Aaliyah for the rest of your years.